Someone special : Beyond Bf and Gf

"If you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make, who would you call and what would you say? And why are you waiting?"

We "the homo sapiens" are basically animals. But social ones! Each of us has basic needs like food, clothing, shelter etc. In modern times, mobile phones and laptops have been also added to list. But what makes us different from those animals which we say are not social? Strong bonding and relationships. Humans crave to love and being loved.

We "the humans" have named each relation. Mom-Dad, Brother-Sister,sister-sister,brother-brother, uncle-aunt, boyfriend-girlfriend and list in endless. Whenever we see two people talking we tend to name their relation. Why? I don't know!.....We introduce ourselves as son/daughter, father/mother etc of someone.


In teenage we have a great urge to know people......get known....see our facebook friendlist ticking.....!


But among all the relations most controversial relation is between a guy and a girl. (who are not brother and sister). The moment you see a guy and a girl taking to each other....we think that they are bf-gf! Why?? Don't know!! And I really die to know!....Can't they be good friends? 


Situation is such that "guy n girl" always keep on CLARIFYING that they are just friends. "Just" friends? I strongly feel that word "just" should not be used with "friends". Friends are precious possession. Being friends is special....something unusual....a kind of miracle...a beauty....everything that is good!


There are few relations....that are too special to be called as Gf-Bf....there is no expectations, no complains and no demands......just being there is important! There is no physical desire...nor they have any plans to marry each other.....just .....no words to explains.....But this relation gives an inordinately positive feeling.....


U see charming face of that person...and that is what makes your day! Again I must stress...There is no expectation...or plan to see that person....but still you bump in to each other many times...You like helping that person...You wish to see that person happy and successful....You are ready to lose just to make that person win....! That person is known yet unknown to you....strange na? But all of us must have had this kind of relation sometime is life. If you did not have such relation...I believe that you have wasted your life.


It can be online even....a girl/guy whom you know since years but never talked to him/her in person. You see him on facebook and chat regularly.....Please don't ask how can you know someone with whom you never talked! Sometimes we hesitate in talking to someone for simply no reason....foolish of us! So just get out and talk to people...U never know you regret later!